From the Cross: Prodigal Sons and Daughters

by David Chadwick

One of the greatest heartaches that I hear from congregants is concern for their wayward children. Many people have prodigal sons and daughters who either don’t know Jesus or have run far from God. Parents fear for their children’s eternal salvation.

A wandering child who has rejected the faith leaves a believing parent in so much angst.

If this is your story, what should you do?

First, keep believing! Keep praying for the salvation of your prodigal son or daughter! There is something extraordinarily powerful about a parent’s prayers for a child. Remember, you are connected to them by a covenant. 1 Corinthians 7:14 speaks to the mysterious grace that comes to a home with a believing spouse. Because of your faith in Jesus, you should have every expectation that God is chasing down your children as much as you long for them to be chased down.

As I have jokingly said from time to time to those wandering in the faith, “If you have a praying and believing mom, you might as well go ahead and give up. You’re toast! You can either choose to believe in Jesus now or it will inevitably happen down the road.”

Secondly, keep modeling your faith to your children. Let them know how important Jesus is to you in both your words and actions. It could be that you send them a Bible verse from time to time or let them know you are praying for them. Or it may be that you let them see how you serve others or give your money or life away. It could even come through a warm cup of coffee you share with them when possible. I always say that faith is more often caught than taught, especially by children. Let them see Jesus in and through you.

Finally, don’t give up. Remember what Yogi Berra said, “It’s not over til it’s over.” Your job is to keep scattering seeds of faith. Keep praying. Keep persevering. Keep modeling your faith to them.

And keep believing that one day Jesus will arrest their hearts so you can spend eternity with them. After all, you’re in sales and God’s in management. Trust him with the outcome and in the meantime, keep practicing the art of faith! After all, faith is the atmosphere of heaven!

And true faith always leads to freedom.

From the Cross: Future Uncertainty

by David Chadwick

No one knows the future except God. He controls all (Psalm 24:1). The earth is the Lord’s and the fullness of it all! Genesis 1:1 reminds us that with one word, he created the world and began to write his story! And one day he will end his story (Revelation 22).

One day, all of time will be fulfilled and God will make his new heaven and new earth, a home without sin or blemish.

This is God’s world. He created it. He controls it. He knows everything…including the future! Uncertainty of the future is another sin pattern that hangs people up. Many in our congregation nailed this to the cross right before Easter, 2025.

I believe Jesus knew this would be hard for people, which is why he taught his disciples to pray like this, “Give us today our daily bread.” He knew that there was no point in worrying about tomorrow (Matthew 6:34). Tomorrow would have enough worries of its own and wisdom would call us to simply ask the Lord to meet us day by day.

We must trust God for all that we may need today. He will provide it! He promised that he would!

Developing this confidence in the Lord and learning how to trust him with our future should leave us confident in the most uncertain circumstances… yes, even death!

Some psychological analysts have estimated that 90% of all problems are rooted in fear, especially the fear of death. But death holds no power in the life of a believer in Jesus (1 Corinthians 15:55-58). When our lives are in Christ, what happens to him happens to us! Because he died and was raised to a new life, we, too, will be raised to a new life!

As someone once said, “We don’t know what the future holds, but we do know who holds the future.” Our lives are in the Father’s hands. He holds every second of our lives in his majestic, celestial hands. In him alone we live and move and have our being (Acts 17:28).

Therefore, we need to fear nothing…especially the future!

Now enjoy today to the full!

From the Cross: Inability to Forgive

by David Chadwick

Personal offense. The inability to forgive someone who has hurt you. This hangup can keep people in shackles for a lifetime!

The first step in breaking free from personal offense is to recognize that it is going to happen in life. We live in a broken world with broken people. Inevitably, we will step on each other’s toes. Only when we truly come to grips with the reality that we owe a billion dollar debt because of our sins can we freely forgive the debt of someone who has hurt us.

To escape the prison of bitterness is the ultimate prison break. Bitterness not only defiles you, but those around you. It contaminates relationships and robs you of purity. See Hebrews 12:16, which says, “It’s ultimately for YOUR benefit to forgive!

So how does this look? What steps need to be taken to forgive?

You may need to practice forgiveness over and over again toward the person or persons who have hurt or betrayed you. Usually, forgiveness is not a one time practice. Can you understand more why Jesus taught Peter to forgive 70 times 7? It is because it often takes a repetitive, daily outpouring of God’s grace on you toward the person who has hurt you.

Take a moment. Picture your offender or the offensive situation. I know this can be really painful, but pause for a moment and try. Now, picture Jesus. The nails through his hands. The crown of thorns on his head. The mockery toward him. The pain he endured. Now take the grace that he showed you and imagine pouring it out on your offender. Over time, bitterness will become weaker and eventually abate!

Finally, remind yourself that Jesus forgave his offenders from the cross (Luke 23:34). While he was dying for our sins, preparing to take his last breath, he chose to forgive those who had placed him on the cross.

Yes, it’s very hard to forgive those who have hurt us, but it is possible through the power of the Holy Spirit. You can’t do it in your own strength, which is what makes it all the more powerful. We must allow Jesus to forgive through us! The One who forgave his offenders now resides in those of us who believe. Let his supernatural, forgiving power flow through you! Walk in freedom, no longer chained by bitterness. Live as Jesus has called you to live!

And finally be set free. After all, forgiveness is primarily for your benefit!