From the Cross: Prodigal Sons and Daughters

by David Chadwick

One of the greatest heartaches that I hear from congregants is concern for their wayward children. Many people have prodigal sons and daughters who either don’t know Jesus or have run far from God. Parents fear for their children’s eternal salvation.

A wandering child who has rejected the faith leaves a believing parent in so much angst.

If this is your story, what should you do?

First, keep believing! Keep praying for the salvation of your prodigal son or daughter! There is something extraordinarily powerful about a parent’s prayers for a child. Remember, you are connected to them by a covenant. 1 Corinthians 7:14 speaks to the mysterious grace that comes to a home with a believing spouse. Because of your faith in Jesus, you should have every expectation that God is chasing down your children as much as you long for them to be chased down.

As I have jokingly said from time to time to those wandering in the faith, “If you have a praying and believing mom, you might as well go ahead and give up. You’re toast! You can either choose to believe in Jesus now or it will inevitably happen down the road.”

Secondly, keep modeling your faith to your children. Let them know how important Jesus is to you in both your words and actions. It could be that you send them a Bible verse from time to time or let them know you are praying for them. Or it may be that you let them see how you serve others or give your money or life away. It could even come through a warm cup of coffee you share with them when possible. I always say that faith is more often caught than taught, especially by children. Let them see Jesus in and through you.

Finally, don’t give up. Remember what Yogi Berra said, “It’s not over til it’s over.” Your job is to keep scattering seeds of faith. Keep praying. Keep persevering. Keep modeling your faith to them.

And keep believing that one day Jesus will arrest their hearts so you can spend eternity with them. After all, you’re in sales and God’s in management. Trust him with the outcome and in the meantime, keep practicing the art of faith! After all, faith is the atmosphere of heaven!

And true faith always leads to freedom.