Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 11:25, The Secret to Being Set Free

by Marilynn Chadwick

“A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.”

Proverbs 11:25 NIV

I love surprises. It’s fun to stumble upon an unanticipated blessing. A sudden bend in the road, a departure from routine, or a change of pace. My kids were well aware of my love for surprises. They used to tease me about “Mom’s adventures” and my fascination with back roads and byways. “One day that woman is going to get herself killed,” laughed my youngest to the other two, as I steered the car off the main road one day to explore yet another inviting rabbit trail.

Throughout many years of following Jesus, I am continually surprised to bump into what I like to call “God’s odd economy.” It is surprising to discover that we truly find our life when we give it away. Proverbs 11:25 promises that when we are generous to others, we will be refreshed. Here’s the same verse paraphrased in The Living Bible.

“It is possible to give away and become richer! It is also possible to hold on too tightly and lose everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself.”

Proverbs 11:25 TLB

Following Jesus is sure to surprise you. He asks us to serve but also to rest. “Come to me all you who labor and carry heavy burdens and I will give you rest…” (Matthew 11:28). Instead of laying more pressure on our shoulders, Jesus promises us tasks well suited to the way he made us. Instead of bondage, we’ll find freedom. This comes as a surprise to many religious people who have thought God calls us to live a life of exhaustion.

But just when we’re beginning to like the idea of resting as one of his “sheep” and hanging out with some pretty good “sheep brothers and sisters,” he jolts us with this challenge: You’ll only find true rest for your soul when you are willing to lose this soul of yours… You’ll only find real life when you are “willing to give your life away” (Matthew 16:25).

There it is again. God’s odd economy. I like the way Isaiah 58:10 puts it: “If you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday.”

It’s like Jesus told us. We find life as we give it away.

I’ll leave you with this question: Is there somewhere you can say “yes” to God right where you are today?

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Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 11:14

by David Chadwick

“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”

Proverbs 11:14

God says there is wisdom in an abundance of counselors, but he also says there is safety. Without it, people are vulnerable to falling.

We live in such an isolated, self-sustaining society. In many ways, I think we have lost the need for one another. We don’t live interdependently. It is becoming increasingly common to only look out for yourself. To make decisions without considering others. To live without the influence, insight, and perspective of other trustworthy believers.

Jesus predicted in Matthew 24:12 that in the end times “lawlessness will be increased, the love of many will grow cold.” We can see this happening around us now. Where wisdom is lacking, lawless behavior rises up. I see a direct correlation between a love for guidance, wisdom, and insight, and preserving the love Jesus died for us to have within the bride of Christ.

There are many times in life when you just don't know what to do. A difficult decision. A troubling diagnosis. Confusing news. Bewildering interactions. Inevitably, in this broken world, someone or something will confront you that requires guidance. Yes, go to the Lord. Seek him above all else.

But then what? Go to a wise and godly friend. Find someone who has walked and lived life and who knows God's Word. And then another. And another. Go to as many wise friends as you can find. How many? As many as you need to. Seek all of their wisdom and counsel. If they are all being led by the same Holy Spirit, their collective wisdom should be similar.

With time, through an abundance of counselors, you will eventually find peace to move forward. Philippians 4:7 says that “the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

The conglomerate wisdom of many will give you a good idea of what you should do. It will help reveal God's will for you in a particular situation. This brings peace and keeps love at the center of your heart.

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 5:18 & 12:4

by David Chadwick

“Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth.”

Proverbs 5:18

“An excellent wife is the crown of her husband.”

Proverbs 12:4

Philippians 4:4 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.” The word “rejoice” means “to feel or show great joy or delight.” There is a biblical command to both FEEL and SHOW joy in the Lord. The Gospel of Jesus prompts a response from us. There is a biblical command to not just declare our joy but to demonstrate the joy of our salvation!

Do you know where else God instructs us to rejoice? It is a command to husbands, and he says to rejoice in the wife of your youth. That is today’s proverb.

A long-term marriage where two people have fought and contended for unity and closeness yields tremendous glory. Where they have shared life together over the years. Where they have together fought through and overcome multiple adversities. Where they have collective memories that are full of trials and triumphs. Where they still hold hands after decades of marriage. Where they have become one flesh!

I am so thankful for my wife, Marilynn. Her love and commitment have shown me so much about the love of Jesus. After all, that’s the goal of marriage. It is a physical representation on this side of eternity of the love Jesus has for his bride, the church, and vice versa.

Proverbs 12:4 says that an excellent wife is the crown of her husband’s life. I know this to be true as well! Marilynn is so excellent in how she loves and lives. I’m so honored to be married to her. She truly is a crown I wear in life. We know the joy of two becoming one.

My dear friends, if you are married, keep working on your marriage. It is hard work, and there will be trials, but remain committed. Make sure the back door of your marriage is locked from the outside. Share your lives with one another. Care for one another. Commit to walking through life's struggles together. Situation by situation, moment by moment, step by step, life will draw you closer and closer with Jesus at the center.

And your years together will be joyous!