Kindness Under Fire: A Leader with Heart

by Marilynn Chadwick

I’m one of those people that gets misty-eyed over our men and women in uniform. My dad is a World War II era submarine veteran. Our family tree is dotted with soldiers back to the Revolutionary War, when our ancestor, Captain Simon Hunt, was one of the 80 minutemen who led the charge against the British with the “shot heard round the world.”

Soldiers fight for our freedom. They display courage and discipline. But for me, war is all about heart. A woman of valor is ready to fight the fight of faith and to fight for those she loves because she has heart. The word heart is used in the Bible over 700 times. The heart is viewed as the seat of the will, the emotions, and even the entire personality. Heart can go hand in hand with kindness—as we see in the word kindhearted.

The heart is also connected to courage. A woman of valor is one who has courage in the face of danger. In the Bible, the words heart and courage are sometimes used interchangeably. For example, Jesus said, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). Instead of “take heart,” several translations tell us to “take courage.”

Deborah was a great leader who had heart. An Old Testament judge and prophet, she was part nurturer and part warrior. Deborah leaves us with a wonderful picture of what it means to lead with kindness. Widely honored for her wisdom, Deborah was the first judge to be called a prophet. She spoke God’s words to his people. She called them to obedience, convicted them of sin, and pointed them to God. We can be certain that Deborah had trained her heart to hear the voice of God.

In Deborah’s day, Israel was in great trouble. They had strayed from the Lord and followed idols, so he sold the people into the hands of their enemies. For twenty years, they had been cruelly oppressed by the Canaanites and their 900 iron chariots. As a result, they had fallen into great despair. Even their roads were unsafe, so people left their villages and retreated to the walled cities, where they hid in fear. There was not even an army of fighting warriors to protect Israel.

That is, until Deborah stepped on the scene. She told how “villagers in Israel would not fight…until I, Deborah arose, until I arose, a mother in Israel” (Judges 5:7 NIV). Notice Deborah didn’t refer to herself as a prophet or a judge, but as “a mother in Israel.” A mother with a heart for her people. A mother ready to spring into action.

Deborah was a nurturing leader. And she sounds like a good mother to me. In the end, after Israel’s overwhelming victory, the final line of her story tells us “The land had peace forty years” (Judges 5:31).

I wonder if God is calling forth today’s women to lead with strength and kindness. Women who nurture and nourish their own children. Who rise up and see potential in broken-down communities. Who call warriors to courage. Who give visions of victory. Who spell out sin and call for repentance. Women like Deborah, who “mother” others to greatness. Is God calling you to be one of those women?