Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 31:8-9, A Voice for the Voiceless

by Marilynn Chadwick

“Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.”

Proverbs 31:8-9 NIV

“The Sayings of King Lemuel” is how some Bible translations refer to the famed 31st chapter of Proverbs. Scripture calls the words an “oracle” taught to the king by his mother. She begins by referring to her son as an answer to her prayer.

“Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!” (Proverbs 31:2b NIV). She goes on to teach him important life lessons about the kind of king he should be and dangers to avoid. We catch a glimpse into the heart of this mother who had prayed for her son and devoted him to the Lord. Let’s look closer at the teachings that were foremost in her mind as she trained this son who would be king (Proverbs 31:1-9).

Like any good mother, she warned him about the dangers of immoral women and overindulgence in alcohol. But her cautions appear to have had more to do with his calling as king rather than mere morality.

For example, she warns him that loose women “ruin kings” and drinking can cause a king to forget laws and deprive the oppressed of their rights. She challenges her son to use his power to help the broken, “[speaking] up for those who cannot speak for themselves” and “[defending] the rights of the poor and needy” (Proverbs 31:3, 5, 8-9).

Clearly the queen mother saw the potential dangers of royalty. She demonstrated her foremost concern that he would be a just and kind ruler to the poor.

If King Lemuel’s mother prayed for this son before he was born and during his lifetime, surely, she also prayed for his wife. So, the description of the Proverbs 31 “woman of valor” (Proverbs 31:10-31) could easily reflect the heart’s desire of a mother as she prays for her son’s future wife. This makes her instructions about seeking a woman of valor all the more meaningful.

And isn’t this the prayer for every mother of sons? That he would be kind and just, a voice for the voiceless, a defender of the weak. That he would find a godly and noble wife? I’d like to think these verses not only represent a mother’s specific hopes for the kind of woman her son would marry, but also the kind of woman her own daughters would one day become.

We can learn a few tips from the Queen Mother in Proverbs 31 on how to pray for our sons and daughters, grandsons and granddaughters.

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 11:25, The Secret to Being Set Free

by Marilynn Chadwick

“A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.”

Proverbs 11:25 NIV

I love surprises. It’s fun to stumble upon an unanticipated blessing. A sudden bend in the road, a departure from routine, or a change of pace. My kids were well aware of my love for surprises. They used to tease me about “Mom’s adventures” and my fascination with back roads and byways. “One day that woman is going to get herself killed,” laughed my youngest to the other two, as I steered the car off the main road one day to explore yet another inviting rabbit trail.

Throughout many years of following Jesus, I am continually surprised to bump into what I like to call “God’s odd economy.” It is surprising to discover that we truly find our life when we give it away. Proverbs 11:25 promises that when we are generous to others, we will be refreshed. Here’s the same verse paraphrased in The Living Bible.

“It is possible to give away and become richer! It is also possible to hold on too tightly and lose everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself.”

Proverbs 11:25 TLB

Following Jesus is sure to surprise you. He asks us to serve but also to rest. “Come to me all you who labor and carry heavy burdens and I will give you rest…” (Matthew 11:28). Instead of laying more pressure on our shoulders, Jesus promises us tasks well suited to the way he made us. Instead of bondage, we’ll find freedom. This comes as a surprise to many religious people who have thought God calls us to live a life of exhaustion.

But just when we’re beginning to like the idea of resting as one of his “sheep” and hanging out with some pretty good “sheep brothers and sisters,” he jolts us with this challenge: You’ll only find true rest for your soul when you are willing to lose this soul of yours… You’ll only find real life when you are “willing to give your life away” (Matthew 16:25).

There it is again. God’s odd economy. I like the way Isaiah 58:10 puts it: “If you spend yourselves in behalf of the hungry and satisfy the needs of the oppressed, then your light will rise in the darkness, and your night will become like the noonday.”

It’s like Jesus told us. We find life as we give it away.

I’ll leave you with this question: Is there somewhere you can say “yes” to God right where you are today?

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Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 11:14

by David Chadwick

“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”

Proverbs 11:14

God says there is wisdom in an abundance of counselors, but he also says there is safety. Without it, people are vulnerable to falling.

We live in such an isolated, self-sustaining society. In many ways, I think we have lost the need for one another. We don’t live interdependently. It is becoming increasingly common to only look out for yourself. To make decisions without considering others. To live without the influence, insight, and perspective of other trustworthy believers.

Jesus predicted in Matthew 24:12 that in the end times “lawlessness will be increased, the love of many will grow cold.” We can see this happening around us now. Where wisdom is lacking, lawless behavior rises up. I see a direct correlation between a love for guidance, wisdom, and insight, and preserving the love Jesus died for us to have within the bride of Christ.

There are many times in life when you just don't know what to do. A difficult decision. A troubling diagnosis. Confusing news. Bewildering interactions. Inevitably, in this broken world, someone or something will confront you that requires guidance. Yes, go to the Lord. Seek him above all else.

But then what? Go to a wise and godly friend. Find someone who has walked and lived life and who knows God's Word. And then another. And another. Go to as many wise friends as you can find. How many? As many as you need to. Seek all of their wisdom and counsel. If they are all being led by the same Holy Spirit, their collective wisdom should be similar.

With time, through an abundance of counselors, you will eventually find peace to move forward. Philippians 4:7 says that “the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

The conglomerate wisdom of many will give you a good idea of what you should do. It will help reveal God's will for you in a particular situation. This brings peace and keeps love at the center of your heart.