Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 3:13, Wisdom’s Reward

by Marilynn Chadwick

“Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding.”

Proverbs 3:13 NIV

People talk a lot about profitable investments and especially the ROI, or “return on investment.” According to Proverbs, there are very few investments in life as profitable as the gaining of wisdom. Threaded throughout Proverbs are admonitions to seek wisdom. The gain from wisdom is “better than gain from silver, and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her” (Proverbs 3:14,15 ESV).

Do you want to be wise? King Solomon sure did. And God blessed him mightily for his prayer (1 Kings 3:5-15). If we lack wisdom, we, too, should ask God. It's a prayer he loves to answer (James 1:5).

But James warns us about the dangers of mere “earthly wisdom.” He calls this kind of wisdom “unspiritual and demonic” (James 3:15 NIV). He contrasts earthly wisdom with heavenly wisdom: “But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere” (James 3:17,18).

Earthly wisdom has a swagger about it. It is power-hungry. Commanding. In control. “For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice” (James 3:16). Eve found earthly wisdom irresistible. And tragically sometimes, so do we.

James reminds us that true wisdom from heaven produces humility: “Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom” (James 3:13). But make no mistake. This wisdom is anything but weak. It comes with its own reward.

The Greek word “praus,” translated as “humility,” implies bridled power. Praus is the very same word Jesus used when he said, "I am gentle and humble in heart" (Matthew 11:29). It’s the only instance in the New Testament where he described himself.

Think about it. Jesus, the all-powerful king of the universe, described himself as humble. In his presence, the sick were healed. The dead were raised. Demons trembled. Jesus was true wisdom from God in human form. That’s the most powerful and the most profitable kind of wisdom on earth—the wisdom that comes from above.

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 17:22, Joy is Good for Your Health

by Marilynn Chadwick

"A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones."

Proverbs 17:22

Can practicing thankfulness actually improve your health? Some think so. I read about a study in which participants were asked to list the things for which they were thankful. They were instructed to write their gratitude list and sustain this exercise for exactly five minutes. The results of the study showed that those who practiced gratitude for five minutes experienced a sharp rise in their disease fighting antibodies. These antibodies remained elevated for several hours!

Being thankful can improve our mental health as well. The Bible teaches us that a thankful heart is a joyful heart. And as Proverbs 17:22 points out, a joyful or cheerful heart is “good medicine.” I like this paraphrase from the Message Bible: “A cheerful disposition is good for your health; gloom and doom leave you bone-tired” (Proverbs 17:22 MSG).

The Bible promises joy when we spend time with Jesus: “You have made known to me the paths of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence” (Acts 2:28 NIV). The Greek word for “joy,” euphrosune, comes from two words that mean “well” and “mind.” Said another way, a sound mind. Joy springs from a sound or healthy mind when we’re connected to Jesus. Just spending time in his presence can be healing. That’s good news!

When we practice being thankful, we become more aware of Jesus and all his blessings. This naturally (and supernaturally) increases our joy. And who doesn't want more joy? Joy is a language anyone can understand.

The story is told of missionaries who went to a tiny village in a faraway place. Even before the missionaries became fluent in the village’s native language, some villagers approached them wanting to hear more about “this Jesus” after hearing the sounds of joyful laughter coming from the missionaries’ tent.

So today, let’s exercise our “thank you muscles.” A thankful, joyful attitude promotes physical and emotional health. This, in turn, will help us be filled with more joy. We can pray that thirsty people—especially those who may not even know what they're thirsty for—will be drawn to our joy. Above all, let’s pray they are drawn to our Jesus who gives us this joy!

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 15:17

by David Chadwick

“Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it.”

Proverbs 15:17

Better is dinner with herbs, a meager meal, where there is love, laughter, and joy, than a dinner with feasting and luxurious food where there is hatred.

I don’t know about you, but some of my best memories with my family of origin were around the dinner table. My dad, mom, brother, and sister all together sharing memories and conversations. My mom would fix great meals, but it was the laughter and great conversation that have had such an impact on my life.

Along with my wife, Marilynn, we created those same kinds of memories with our three kids. And today, our three kids are extending the same blessing to our now 12 grandchildren.

Now, for just a moment, imagine sitting around this kind of dinner table with people you hate. Even if the food is great, the enjoyment of the moment will fizzle away quickly.

How does this apply to all of us today?

First, think about your own personal family. Have you put more of a focus on your career, money, and success and, as a result, forgotten to cultivate love? None of these things are inherently evil. But without love, they are meaningless. Are you spending more time on things that will fade away than on the things that remain: faith, hope, and love, the greatest of which is love (1 Corinthians 13:13)?

Secondly, think about the local church in which you take part. Are you prioritizing love? Do you have a high value for the bride of Christ? Do you desire the nourishment that comes from a life that follows Jesus? Or are you constantly pursuing things that may fill your flesh in the moment, but leave you lacking spiritually?

Celebrate the beautiful moments around a dinner table. But most importantly, feast on love. Seek to be in unified communion with one another. This is God’s heart for his church.