Hearing God’s Voice: Will You Listen?

by Marilynn Chadwick

God is always speaking. The question is, “Will you listen?” It’s a question I ask myself every day. Will I take the time to listen in our busy, noisy world? I have discovered that if you truly commit to listening to God, amazing things can happen.

David and I have shared over four decades of marriage and ministry (I once vowed that I’d never become a Christian, and most definitely, I would never marry a minister. Funny how things turn out, isn’t it?). Along the way, we have discovered that listening to God is not just about hearing his voice. It’s also about doing his will.

My life, I realized one day, was either a “so what?” or a “so that!” If listening to God took me no further than my own little world, then so what? The point of hearing his voice is so that I’ll do his will. So, I told God that I would give my whole heart to listening to him. And I committed to pray, starting with my own family right at home, but with an eye for the needs of God’s larger world.

What happens when you begin to take seriously the call to listen to God’s voice? That’s when the adventure begins! You could end up traveling to genocide torn regions in Africa as David and I did. Or you might come face to face with the needs of your neighbor next door. You just might meet people and go to places you never knew existed—starting within your own community.

Everyone's journey will look different. You can read more about my experiences in Sometimes He Whispers, Sometimes He Roars: Learning to Hear the Voice of God. The book started out as simply a memoir of my own adventures in prayer. But friends kept urging me to add some practical content to this journey—some footsteps— so others could follow along.

I firmly believe that if you will listen to God daily and watch for him at work right where you are, your ordinary days will no longer feel ordinary.

Power in Prayer: Embrace your Weakness

by Marilynn Chadwick

Not getting what you want when you want it may be one of the best training tactics for sharpening your prayers. Notice I didn’t say not getting what you want at all. I find that people are more easily able to dismiss their heart’s desire altogether than to wait for it. It is easier to give up in defeat and walk away from a dream than to stand on God’s promise, clinging to the hope God has placed in your heart.

That’s why waiting on God is such an incredible test of faith—I refer to this time in my life as “wait training.” When my husband and I endured many grueling years of infertility, I fed myself on the promises of God’s Word about healing—too many to count—day after day, month after month. During those days of waiting, I learned to hear God’s whispers of encouragement and trust his character. In short, I learned the secret of what the apostle John calls “abiding in Christ” (John 15:7).

The lessons during those days of weakness and waiting trained me to hear God’s voice. I learned to stay yoked to him through faith, rest, and humility when my own strength fell short. Humility is a constant companion when you are desperately waiting for something. Dependency on God makes you realize just how small you really are. Strangely, I found that it brought freedom. It also gives strength in the spiritual battles that come daily.

The apostle Paul discovered this same aspect of God’s grace during his own times of trial. He had pleaded with God to take away what the Bible calls a “thorn in the flesh,” some weakness or affliction that Paul said tormented him. But the Lord comforted Paul with these words, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Paul eventually got to the point that he welcomed weakness and hardship and could even say, “When I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:7-10). As a wise friend once remarked after weathering multiple family tragedies, her faith still strong, “Control is just an illusion.”

And despite all my tools, tips, personal disciplines, and strategies for prayer, I keep learning the same lesson—some of God’s most amazing work occurs when I am flattened by life.

What does that have to do with our power in prayer? Just this—our times of weakness don’t repel God or wreck our prayers. In fact, God’s grace shines brightest through our broken places. If you have crash landed into the end of your own strength and have nothing to bring to God but your broken places, give thanks. For you just may discover that his strength really does work best when you are weak. Like Paul, you may experience your greatest spiritual victories.

This time of brokenness could be the most valuable thing you bring to your personal journey in prayer. You may be on the brink of seeing your mess become your miracle. For it’s when we are broken that we’re most likely to hear God’s whispers and experience his greatest power.

Power in Prayer: Be Vigilant

by Marilynn Chadwick

I echo nineteenth-century, Yale-educated scholar and theologian R.A. Torrey when he said, “There is a devil. That’s why we pray.” And if you ask me why it’s important to bring order and discipline to our lives for the purpose of prayer, I would add, “Because we are in a spiritual war.”

The Bible admonishes us to live daily as sober-minded and watchful, because “the devil prowls around like a roaring lion seeking someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8 ESV). Anyone with combat experience will tell you that alertness and preparation, along with mindfulness to details, can make the difference in victory or defeat, life or death.

Our oldest son attended a military academy in Virginia for one year after high school to play for their top-ranked prep basketball team. He and his teammates banked on the fact that though it was sure to be tough, this experience would help them become bigger, faster, quicker, and stronger ball players. The school’s success in launching Division One college players spoke for itself.

But life at a military academy is not what you’d call fun. Our son would never tell you he liked being in full dress, at attention, and ready to march by 6 A.M. Nor did he enjoy the strict discipline and freakish attention to detail. His shoes had to be lined up to an exact inch from the wall. The sink could have no toothpaste traces, and his bed had to be made with absolutely no wrinkles—all before the sun came up. Some cadets even slept on top of the already made beds, and threw an extra blanket over them at night, rather than face an imperfectly made bed, subsequent demerits, and the hours of marching around the “bull ring” that were sure to follow. Oh, and did I mention the “buzz cuts?”

At the year’s end, our son headed off to fulfill his dream of playing Division One college basketball. Other cadets headed for West Point or the Naval Academy, and eventually to combat. Over its one-hundred-plus year history, the school has sent scores of young men off to fight, and some to die, defending our nation’s freedom. A sign on their campus wall prominently displays this Revolutionary War quote, “The price of freedom is eternal vigilance.”

The Bible encourages us to be similarly vigilant in guarding our spiritual freedom. We are told to always be alert and to “pray without ceasing.” Yet life moves at such a fast pace—sometimes we forget to guard that line of communication with God.

A person who decides to follow Christ will face struggles with the world, the devil, and our own human nature or what the Bible calls “the flesh.” Paul knew that the battle had to be fought on all sides.

Our human body is still earthbound and subject to all kinds of desires and propensities to get off track. We must take charge of it, so it doesn’t control us. I’ve discovered that some of my toughest spiritual battles have been the battles with myself.

That’s why the Bible teaches that self-discipline is important to the believer who wants to win at spiritual war. “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful,” the writer of Hebrews tells us. “Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it” (Hebrews 12:11 NIV). As someone wisely said, “Peace, like war, must be waged.”