A Missing in Action Word for Christians: Kindness

by David Chadwick

I believe kindness is one of the things that is missing in action in today’s society. Where has it gone? Generally speaking, kindness is defined as the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. If you were to look around, I bet you would agree with me that these traits are hard to come by right now.

Biblically speaking, kindness is also a fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Jesus expects it to be present in the lives of his followers. God’s definition of kindness runs far deeper than any cultural understanding. Micah 6:8 says we are to “love kindness.” Zechariah 7:9 says to “show kindness and mercy to one another.” Colossians 3:12 says we should “put on kindness.” 1 Corinthians 13:4 says that “love is patient and kind.”

Jesus said in Matthew 24:12 that the evidence of the end times will be that the love of many will grow cold. Can you see this happening? It is becoming increasingly common in our world to see the heart of humanity growing increasingly cold.

But in the kingdom of heaven, kindness is not merely a “feel good” emotion. The deep kindness of the Lord provokes a willingness to serve others - yes, even those who are ungrateful and difficult. Kindness gives us the power to do hard things. In fact, Romans 2:4 says that it is God’s kindness that leads us to repentance. Think for a moment about the magnitude of power behind the kindness of the Lord! His kindness is so incredible that it is powerful enough to provoke lasting change in our lives!

I want this week to serve as a kindness check for all of us. Begin to check your hearts and examine yourselves to see where kindness may be lost, where your hearts may be growing cold. Then, I want to encourage all of us to reclaim kindness as a normal part of the vocabulary for Christ followers.

Kindness should not be an afterthought. It should not be a missing in action trait of Christians. We should exercise kindness as a regular, daily part of our lives.

Let’s start tomorrow by learning how to reclaim kindness!