Gratitude: Grumbling or Grateful?

by Marilynn Chadwick

"Bless the Lord O my soul and forget not all his benefits.”

Psalm 103:2 ESV

Thankful. Just one little word was printed in small letters across the front of the woman’s t-shirt. But for some reason, it caught my attention. I think it was the period at the end of what wasn’t even a sentence. Thankful. I guess you could read it this way: “Thankful, period.” I would like that to be me. I’m thankful. Period.

But I have to confess. Sometimes I am less than thankful. Perhaps it’s because I’m not paying attention to all the blessings in my path. Or maybe I sometimes take God’s benefits for granted.

I was jolted out of this spiritual lethargy by something a minister from Africa once said when speaking to a church gathering. He was a genocide survivor from Burundi and had seen more death and destruction than I could comprehend. “Do you have all your arms and legs—your limbs?” he asked us. “Then you are blessed!” “Do you have your eyes, your sense of hearing, your ability to speak?” “Then praise God and give him thanks. Rejoice and count your amazing blessings!” he exclaimed. From his perspective, it was an incredible blessing simply to be alive. Healthy. Not maimed by war. Reasons to rejoice!

Stop and think for a minute. Reflect on the many benefits you enjoy simply because you don’t live in an area ravaged by war. Do you have all your limbs? Can you walk? Are you able to see and hear and talk? Then, as the African minister would say, “Rejoice at your great blessings!”

Our congregation was deeply moved by the man’s words and came alongside his organization to explore ways we could help rebuild their war-torn country. But there was a powerful, personal takeaway for me. His words made me want to become more intentional about being thankful to God each day for my many blessings. To resist complaining about petty annoyances.

Next time we are tempted to grumble, let’s pause and take a look at our hands and feet… and be thankful. Savor the ability to walk and see and hear. Let’s be intentional to count the ways God has poured his grace upon us and “forget not all his benefits.”