Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 17:6

by David Chadwick

“Grandchildren are the crown of the aged, and the glory of children is their fathers.”

Proverbs 17:6

Grandchildren are the crown of those in old age. And the glory of children is their fathers.

This proverb has two great insights. Let’s take a look at them together.

First, grandkids are a crown for faithful parents. Marilynn and I now have 12 grandchildren. Yet we vividly remember the years when we were told by doctors that we would never have children. From a barren womb came three children and now 12 grandchildren.

In the midst of our brokenness, God was faithful. Now to have 12 grandkids is like wearing a crown! A “well done” from the Lord and a display of his faithfulness in our lives. Our grandchildren make us feel like royalty! And help us see why we were placed on this planet.

Second, this proverb states the importance of a father’s relationships with his kids. Dads aren’t add-ons to God’s plan for the world. They are not superfluous. They are a crucial and integral part of family unity and God’s original intent.

In fact, I’ve often stated through the years that I can’t think of one time where I have met a dysfunctional adult who had a great, present, and invested dad. A Godly dad who persistently pursued Jesus in his own life, I am sure there may be some examples, but I’ve not personally seen or experienced it.

If you’re a father, teach your children God’s Word. Pray with them and for them. Memorize Scripture with them. Imitate Jesus to them. Always remember that kids spell love T-I-M-E. Spend time with them. Be present. Hug them often. Tell them you love them. That you are proud of them.

The Father in heaven did this with his Son, Jesus, at his baptism. If Jesus, who was perfect, benefited from his Father’s blessing and affirmation, how much more do our earthly kids need them from us!

And our grandkids!