Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 18:24

by David Chadwick

“A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there’s a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

Proverbs 18:24

Today, we are going to look at Proverbs 18:24, which says, “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there’s a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”

There is a significant difference between acquaintances and a true friend. Most everyone has many acquaintances: neighbors, co-workers, people you bump into at your children’s schools or sporting events, and so forth. You interact with these people. You talk. You may even say hello. But there is little depth.

In fact, people may have many acquaintances, or companions, but are severely lacking when it comes to experiencing the kinds of blessings that only true friends can bring.

A true friend is someone who sticks even closer than a brother or sister in your immediate family. These are the kinds of people who are there in your toughest times. When life stinks. When others have deserted you. These are the ones who remain.

They are present with you immediately in a time of need. They are always just a text or phone call away. Unlike Job’s three friends who came to him in his distress and pontificated about God’s “why” he was going through all his tragedy and pain, even suggesting it was because of some sin he had committed, a true friend is a master of what many refer to as “the ministry of presence.” Seldom saying a word. With a hand on your shoulder. Holding your hand. Rejoicing with you in joys and weeping with you in sorrows (Romans 12:15).

Do you have this kind of friend? If so, at some time today, call, text, email, or write a letter to that person and simply thank him or her for being a friend who sticks closer than a brother or sister. These people are what some call “forever friends.” They are more valuable than all of the money in the world.