Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 31:2, A Queen Mother’s Words for Her Son

by Marilynn Chadwick

“Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb! Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!”

Proverbs 31:2 NIV

For centuries, people have been fascinated by royalty. The Bible is filled with stories of men and women of noble birth whose lives had eternal impact. While we are exploring the world of kings and queens, let’s go back and take another look at Proverbs 31.

We have been discussing the characteristics of the Proverbs 31 woman, also known as the “Woman of Valor.” To learn more about this incredible woman, read Proverbs 31:10-31, or check out our previous blog series by clicking here.

In the first portion of Proverbs 31, verses 1-9, we find a set of instructions from an unnamed Queen Mother to her son who would be king. These words are the teaching of his mother to King Lemuel.

Bible scholars are divided about the identity of King Lemuel. Many think Lemuel, which means “devoted to God,” was another name for Solomon. Others believe it was a name for King Hezekiah. Some have concluded that King Lemuel is the fictitious representation of the ideal king.

Whoever it was, he had a wise mother. Her words are regarded as prophetic words of Scripture, “an inspired utterance his mother taught him” (Proverbs 31:1 NIV). The Hebrew word massa, has a variety of translations in English Bibles. The word is rendered “prophecy” in the King James and Revised Geneva Translations. Massa is translated “vision” in the Wycliffe Bible, the first English translation hand printed in the 14th century. This same Hebrew word, massa, is translated “declaration” in Young’s Literal Translation in the 19th century. Proverbs 31:1-9 is one of the few Bible passages that clearly attributes its content to a woman’s teaching and explicitly records it as Scripture.

The word in this verse translated as “taught” implies much more than mere verbal instruction. It can mean “to chasten, reprove, discipline, correct, or instruct.” This kind of training implies continual reinforcement. It doesn’t happen quickly and best occurs within the context of a close relationship, such as a mother with her children.

King Lemuel’s mother begins her prophecy by referring to her son as the “answer to my prayers” (verse 2). In the verses that follow, she teaches him important life lessons about how to behave in a kingly manner.

The passage serves as a sober admonition to parents to guard our children against the very same vices the Queen Mother knew would destroy a leader's character and reign. It’s also a reminder for moms and dads to take seriously our responsibility to not only train, but to pray for our child and grandchildren, as well as the generations to come!

Today’s Moment of Hope is adapted from Woman of Valor, Discovering the Courage and Strength God Gave You by Marilynn Chadwick.

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