The Fruit of the Spirit: Gentle and Strong

by David Chadwick

Gentleness is the eighth fruit of the Holy Spirit.

The Greek word for gentleness is praus. It’s the only adjective Jesus ever uses to describe himself (Matthew 11:30).

The word literally means “bridled power.” Picture a fierce, strong stallion who is bridled by a rider. It is able to run and jump over high walls, but because of the bridle in its mouth is able to correctly direct the powerful force within. This is true gentleness.

Philippians 4:5 says, “Let your reasonableness be known to everyone.” Other translations say to let your gentleness be evident to all. Surely there is an aspect of gentleness that is steady, reasonable, certain. A sure-footed and secure disposition.

Gentleness also implies great humility, which shows us why Jesus used it to describe himself. Jesus was the ultimate display of humility and used his supernatural strength to give his life away as a ransom for many (Mark 10:45).

We see another example of the Father’s heart of gentleness in Isaiah 40:11, “He will tend his flock like a shepherd; he will gather the lambs in his arms; he will carry them in his bosom, and gently lead those that are with young.”

When gentleness is evident in the life of a believer, humility permeates everything!

Tenderness will shine through your interactions. You will know that all of your gifts and talents are bridled by the Holy Spirit, controlled by him, and are to be used for his glory. A gentle life seeks the will of the Spirit, knowing that all glory belongs to God and every good and perfect gift comes from him (James 1:17).

As you operate more and more in humility, you will learn to reflect Jesus more and more. A life controlled by the Holy Spirit will reflect submission to the Father, even in the midst of your humanity.

Tough and tender. Strong and loving. This is gentleness. Let’s all be more and more connected to the Spirit and pray he will give us more gentleness.