Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 11:14

by David Chadwick

“Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”

Proverbs 11:14

God says there is wisdom in an abundance of counselors, but he also says there is safety. Without it, people are vulnerable to falling.

We live in such an isolated, self-sustaining society. In many ways, I think we have lost the need for one another. We don’t live interdependently. It is becoming increasingly common to only look out for yourself. To make decisions without considering others. To live without the influence, insight, and perspective of other trustworthy believers.

Jesus predicted in Matthew 24:12 that in the end times “lawlessness will be increased, the love of many will grow cold.” We can see this happening around us now. Where wisdom is lacking, lawless behavior rises up. I see a direct correlation between a love for guidance, wisdom, and insight, and preserving the love Jesus died for us to have within the bride of Christ.

There are many times in life when you just don't know what to do. A difficult decision. A troubling diagnosis. Confusing news. Bewildering interactions. Inevitably, in this broken world, someone or something will confront you that requires guidance. Yes, go to the Lord. Seek him above all else.

But then what? Go to a wise and godly friend. Find someone who has walked and lived life and who knows God's Word. And then another. And another. Go to as many wise friends as you can find. How many? As many as you need to. Seek all of their wisdom and counsel. If they are all being led by the same Holy Spirit, their collective wisdom should be similar.

With time, through an abundance of counselors, you will eventually find peace to move forward. Philippians 4:7 says that “the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

The conglomerate wisdom of many will give you a good idea of what you should do. It will help reveal God's will for you in a particular situation. This brings peace and keeps love at the center of your heart.