Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 18:17

by David Chadwick

“The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him.”

Proverbs 18:17

Our world is full of so many perspectives, sides, and stories. And in this social media generation, opinions are running wild. Everyone is a self-acclaimed expert, and there are many different stances everywhere you turn.

So, what do you do when you hear something about someone? Or when you catch someone’s opinion about something occurring in the world? Or when you read a story in the news? How do you intercept so much information and so many opinions with wisdom and discernment?

Proverbs 18:17 tells us exactly what to do, and it is so practical. Let’s look at it today.

This verse essentially encourages all of us to pause. It teaches us that someone’s opinion sounds right until you hear the other side.

What a powerful insight this is, especially when trying to mediate two different opinions. You hear one side, and you think you have the necessary insight to draw a right conclusion. Then you hear the other side, and you realize it's a completely different story. Most often, the truth lies somewhere in between the two sides. But it's important to always hear both sides of a story.

The Bible also encourages us to have two or three witnesses whenever an accusation is brought against someone. Why? Because we all see things differently. That's why this proverb provides important wisdom before reaching a conclusion.

This verse is a great truth for parents, bosses, pastors, coaches, and leaders. Anyone who finds themselves in a position of leadership must practice this principle when presented with any difficult situation.

Go slow. Listen. Take in all sides. Most often, the truth lies somewhere in between, something my dad used to say all the time.

Above all, pray for discernment. Sometimes you must examine to find the truth. It must be searched out.

Remain shrewd as a serpent, innocent as a dove. Search out the truth with all vigilance, but as you do, keep your heart pure. Don’t let your heart become hardened as you see the complexities you will inevitably witness in this broken world.

One day, Jesus will make all things right. We will know his truth in all things.